Mortgage Guide

rwdrumz asked:

Don’t bash me for my methods, but just give your thoughts in the current situation. Ex and I had a super easy divorce where I said, “I’ll move out, you keep paying the mortgage on the house and we’ll decide later if you refinance or sell it.” Well, we have a 2nd mortgage line of credit for all our debt consolidation and home improvements. I have been paying half this 2nd mortgage cuz it was debt we both gathered. But if I gave her the whole house and it’s 1st mortgage payment, shouldn’t she also be paying the 2nd mortgage? The 2nd mortgage came from equity which I earned half of. Now I’m giving up that equity so isn’t that her resposibility now?

For example on a refi. 1st mortgage we owe 200k. House worth 280k. 2nd mortgage balance 80k. She refi’s the 1st mortgage, I get 40k in equity. She refi’s 2nd mortgage and even if we split the 80k, I just give her back the 40k I earned from equity so I’m even. Is my logic correct here? I should be 100% free of any of the mortgages?
That’s exactly what I was asking about. If she refinances, logic is that it’ll be for the whole amount (1st and 2nd mortgages) and I’d not fit in anywhere. Some think I’m still responsible for 1/2 the HELOC because I helped create that debt it was put towards. But it’s from equity in the home so if I give up my equity portion, I also give up my 1/2 of the HELOC resposibility, right?

Question posted courtesy of: Darryl